"Take the piano teacher... she always says, Relax,relax. But how can you relax while your fingers are rushing over the keys? Yet they have to relax. The singing teacher and the golf pro say the same thing...what has to be relaxed is the personal self, the self that tries too hard...this has to be relaxed in order that the multiple powers at work within the deeper and wider self may come through and function as they should... the harder we try, the worse we do the thing."  Aldous Huxley